1. 你说奇怪不奇怪，儿媳妇不养公婆就不孝顺，女婿不养岳父母叫正常，儿媳妇半年不去看望公婆叫不懂事，女婿半年不去看望岳父母就正常，十个岳母有九个疼爱女婿，十个婆婆有九个和儿媳妇关系紧张。
You said that it is not surprising that the daughter-in-law is not filial if she does not raise her in-laws. The son-in-law does not raise her parents to be normal. The daughter-in-law does not go to visit the in-laws for half a year. She does not visit her parents for half a year. She is called a normal ten-month mother with nine Tang An son. Nine out of ten mothers-in-law have a tense relationship with their daughter-in-law.
2. 婆媳婆媳，十年看婆，十年看媳。大部分婆媳关系不好，问题就在于前面十年看婆。人都是相互的，你全心全意对别人，别人也会全心全意还你。
Mother-in-law and mother-in-law have seen her mother-in-law for ten years. Most of the mother-in Xi law relationship is not good. The problem is that the women in the past ten years are mutual. You are wholeheartedly for others, and others will return you wholeheartedly.
3. 婆婆就是婆婆，妈妈就是妈妈。
Mother-in-law is mother-in-law, is mother.
4. 帮你是情分，不帮你是本分，婆婆不是妈，永远不要过分期待。
It is a duty to help you not to help you, your mother-in-law is not a mother, never look forward to it.
5. 婆婆眼里媳妇永远是外人，媳妇眼里婆婆总是有些碍事。
In the eyes of her mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law is always an outsider. In the eyes of her wife, her mother-in-law always has some obstacles.
6. 相信这个世界没有不和的婆媳关系，只有你受不了的委屈。
I believe that there is no discordant relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this world, only the grievances you can stand.
7. 婆婆就是怕你没受过她受的罪，却享了她没有享的福。
Mother-in-law is afraid that you have not suffered from her suffering, but it shows that he did not think of blessing.
8. 婆媳关系永远败在那些的过去过去我怎样的这些话上。
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will always be defeated in those past, in the past how I said these words.
9. 全家都是家人，只有你一个是外人。
The whole family is family. You e the only one whos outside.
10. 保持一定的距离，永远客客气气的。
Keep a certain distance, always polite.
11. 人与人的任何关系，其实都是在各种的利益，相互制约，相互需要相互平衡的产物。
Any relationship between people is actually a product of mutual restriction, mutual need and mutual balance in various interests.
12. 婆婆思想有可能老旧了一点，媳妇作为晚辈，要理解，要体谅。
The mother-in-laws thoughts may live in a little old, and the daughter-in-law, as a younger generation, must understand and be considerate.
